Once in a lifetime when you decide things for yourself you need to make changes that are inevitable & that will only make your quality of life, worthy of what it has to be.
Listed below are some pointers as to what they could be:
-Only the contact numbers, Facebook friends, weekend plans, relationships and roommates you actually want including acquaintances.
-Being confident enough to no longer justify what you eat, who you date or what you wear, not only to other people, but to yourself too.
-A clear picture of what you consider to be your ‘go to’ outfit, something to wear to an interview, office party, wedding, impromptu night out and a date if it crops up out of nowhere.
-A drink recipe as you like it, a restaurant for that without a doubt yum lunch, hairstyle that takes less than five minutes in the morning, a diary that you can scribble anything into, a favorite book to lift up your spirits, and a personally decorated area at your place where you’d like to entertain friends & family.
-The ability to pack one’s essentials at a moment’s notice should you have the chance to get away for a weekend, or a completely new life.
-The clarity of who you are and the ability to forgive yourself for who you thought you were.
-A sense of contentment in one’ s beliefs & the unadulterated power of not getting affected by the right/wrong karma of people present in your life. It’s your path that you gotta concentrate on, not the others.
-Travelling plans for the future, be it with a bestie, a partner or even by yourselves as that’s the way you meet new people, explore new places & broaden your horizons.
-A clear idea of what one needs in a romantic relationship, not just what you want, or what you think you need, and the willingness to explore different people and other ideas to find out what exactly that is.
-The faith that one deserves better in life, no matter what the current scenario maybe.
All that matters is the belief that you are and will always be your favourite.