Yes, only you can start being unapologetically you!
Whatever ‘what if’s’, ‘could have been’s’ are going on in your mind right now, put them to rest. End them before they end you. Now, with a clean slate look forward to a wonderful 2014. You know what, as the new year begins.. do something new everyday, make some art, no matter how it turns out to be, sing at a karaoke night, draw something out of your imagination, write your heart out, or simply live the way you have longed to.. after all its all about perspective.. isn’t it? And don’t let others judge the way you live your life.
Kiss someone who thinks you are amazing the way you are. Drink wine, enjoy your favourite dessert, make a hearty meal from scratch. Make more mistakes, you will only be a better person. Dream so big, that others find it incredibly & outrageously wonderful and make something only you can. Also, believe that you will be loved & liked and also be hated & disliked by all sorts of people but it really isn’t something you should be bothered by, its their problem & their feelings, you love yourself & that’s enough.
Don’t stay at one place, in one relationship, don’t be stagnant, just don’t stop, don’t worry that it isn’t good enough, or how perfect can it be because life will never be. Don’t wait for things to happen, don’t wait for people to change, don’t give others the right to degrade you, don’t let them take the steering wheel of your life in their hands, just keep going on unaffected and trust the world will be an oyster!
whatever it is: art, love, work, family or life, let your heart guide you and don’t ever second guess yourself. Have faith!
Whatever it is you’re scared of doing, Do it. Bring the change in you, in your life!
Make mistakes, next year and forever!